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Do TRUST your (real)FRIENDS!

Have you ever trusted someone? You would have surely done so. You may be wondering why I asked such a question…well, the reason is I am going to share a personal experience about the trust I did in someone, once and for all.

I may not be able to conclude in the end, something like,” Never trust anyone”, or “trust hurts”, etc. I am only trying to put my feelings into words, because I believe that emotions and feelings have no parameter or restriction.

Anyway, it all started when my way was lightened up with the presence of someone; someone who was charming; someone who was attractive; and someone who was innocent. I met him randomly, but the relationship, as in, the friendship built up mutually. We became friends, we used to talk together, we laughed together, we teased each other…, in short,we shared a good time with each other. I was happy, I was grateful; for I had got such a sweet and gentle friend.

But time never stays the same. There also came up a misfortune to me that changed my state of mind. It shattered me like anything. I was shocked; I was surprised; and I was speechless. I had no words to speak out, but the flow of tears in my eyes was enough to reveal my story. The reason for my distress was a little mistake I committed; a mistake that any human can commit. Not deliberately of course.

I do confess it, but the thing, which was much painful, was those words I had never expected to be heard from the only person I trusted blindly. It seemed as if everything around me happened to be still, and I was all helpless. I pleaded him; I begged him; but all in vain. I could not imagine a person could be such cold-hearted.

And yet in the end, I was left all alone. I tied up myself in a relation merrily, but it got split up badly. I lost the confidence that I had in myself; I suffered with the loss of faith that I had on him…

A million words could not bring him back, I know because I have tried. A million tears could not bring him back, I know because I have cried.

 

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13 thoughts on “Do TRUST your (real)FRIENDS!”

  1. Very well-written!

    Life is unpredictable. You never know what it might throw towards you the next instance. Whatever happens to us, it’s a part of a bigger plan…a plan that Nature has made for us…for our own good. And we’ve to learn from all this.

    So…all we need to do is to take pleasure in our own little accomplishments. Life is in the sweet little moments that we often forget to appreciate. Count your blessings.
    Keep rocking! Keep blogging! =P

  2. Hazrat Imam Ali(A.S):

    “Insan dukh nahi daity…Insanoon se wabasta umeedein dukh daiti hain”

    Well!!!! Anum the Word is going crazy….nd its very cruel as well..In short words don’t expect much more from the ppl….nd don’t be emotionally attached wid them.
    Anyway Anum!
    Every bad situation has something positive in it…Even a stopped watch gives correct time twice a day…So always expect positive from ur life..!!

    May God bless U!!!!

  3. true that is.. expectations hurt.. we can easily say not to expect something from someone anymore, but that’s something we can’t take control over.. we still expect, we still trust them blindly, we still get hurt. But that’s how we learn the mysterious moves of life.!
    (:

    1. After being hurt who still expects & trusts ppl. blindly????? i don’t think such attitude will favor such a person…infarct it will make u more weak ….!!!!

    2. After being hurt who still expects & trusts ppl. blindly????? i don’t think such attitude will favor such a person…infarct it will make u more weak ….!!!!

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